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Sokka Cultural show

Sunway Beach Volleyball Tournament

My parents with 'Jiu Choy'. He actually shares our last name. He's getting really big now.

See the book missing on the top left corner? I got the last copy! A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle.

Last but not least, my poor car. It was scratched by some dumb-A at the parking lot. Whoever he is, he must have paid his way to his driving license. Seriously, how could you run into a still-object? It's not even moving!

Live: Soul Search

Soul searching.

2.5 years have past since I returned from the US. I've taken 2 months off, 1 was the month after I came back, another was in between my 1st and 2nd job. Perhaps I should have taken more time off and not rush into a new job. Looking back, I think I rushed into decisions too soon, without really knowing if that was the job I desired. I guess that's a common mistake for fresh grads.

Few months ago, T landed himself in an oil & gas company, doing what he desired. That's a jackpot.

My sis recently made a move to an American based Telco company, and she's now in her first month, undergoing intensive training. Next month, she will be leaving for Indiana for another 2 month training. She has always wanted to go overseas and experience a life away from home. With this opportunity, her wish will come true. I can already see her much happier than before. It is only natural when you have something to look forward.

A close friend/team mate of mine had recently quit her job, after 7 long years. That was her very first job. She will be heading to Australia to visit her grandmother, backpacking around the continent, get a job there if possible, and perhaps try to bump into the love of her life.

A best buddy of mine will be coming back from Hawaii in a few weeks. Besides dying to reunite with her lover boy, her mind is already filled with ideas on her future plans.

These are the wonderful events happening around me. They are all making changes, taking strides towards the life they intended. It makes me think, really hard.

I know what I want now.

Meanwhile, read the Chamber of Secrets for the 2nd time.

Live: A Funeral

I attended a funeral yesterday. A good friend's father passed away at 71 years old from stroke. The family did not see it coming. The stroke left him only 5 days, unconscious. The family was not around when he passed. They had left the hospital to get some rest when the hospital called them. Although all tried to rush to the hospital at once, they were 5 minutes late. My friend said that her father had always been a carefree person. That was his way of saying goodbye, avoiding the heart breaking moment. He left peacefully.

I was there to pay respect and express my condolences, as the friend is like a sister to me. She is 10 years older than me, but we clicked as friends and she's a superb teammate.

I never knew her father, so I did not expect any teary eyes. When I saw my friend's mother, she was a picture of sadness and pain. Imagine losing the love of your life, your life long soul mate. She remembered me. I did not know what to say. I feared that I would trigger her sadness and tears.

After paying respect to the deceased, we sat down with my friend. My friend started telling us about the last moments of her father, and how all happened in a sudden. She also recalled many sweet memories of her and her father. He was a loving father, husband, and an incredibly caring grandfather to the family. She spoke of him in awe and utmost respect. He will be missed sorely, I am sure.

As I watched and listened, my eyes became teary. All these made me think of my parents and grandparents. I fear that day. I have never lost a close relative before. When my grandfather passed away, I was in the US and only found out about it a week after. I was sad, but the impact was not unbearable.

I visited my grandfather's grave for the first time 2 years ago with my grandmother. I remember seeing her talking to my grandfather's grave. She brought his favorite Fried Meehun and 'Kopi-Ice'. Even several years after my grandfather left, she was still in tears. I could tell that she missed him so much, and it was a sight that I would never forget.

As for my parents, seeing them getting older by the year is scary. I know it is part of life. Therefore, I try to spend more time with them, and give them whatever I could offer. I have a pair of parents who had worked so hard to give us the best upbringing and life. They deserve every bit of my attention and love. I could not ask for better parents.

Now, I am really looking forward to the Phuket trip with my parents. I want to take many pictures and give them the experience that they never had.

“樹欲靜而風不止，子欲養而親不在。”

Live: Dresses & Color

Look at the Countdown on the left. Only 50 days left till Phuket. Therefore, I've been eying for sun dresses lately, not so fruitful so far. So, instead of shopping and walking my legs off, I went online to get some ideas.

Jcrew Masako eyelet ballerina dress
Love the thin spaghetti straps, the lacey bottom, and the sandals. Like the model's hair too, very natural and down to earth.

FUCHSIA
My new favorite color.

DianeVon Furstenberg Rewa silk gown
Fuchsia with bright yellow in floral print. It shouts sunshine. I like the length. It's feminine.